Yesterday I was sick with a head cold very much, and Mr. Brown wasn't feeling so great either, and when we got to the end of the day, I said to Rose Pink, "I will pay you five dollars if you help Papa with the dishes," and she got up at once to help. While they were working on it, I heard Mr. Brown say to her, "Pause helping me for a minute and clear the table - let's do a favor for your mother." When she came to me later for scripture time/private time, she said, "Mom, you don't have to pay me the five dollars. It was fun to be with Daddy."
Bobo cleaned the living room to get some more video game time, and I awarded him fifteen minutes. He said, "YES!" and Nut Brown immediately asked if he could play with him. Bobo said very adamantly, "NO" and persisted in spite of all Nut Brown's entreaties. Then Nut Brown gave thanks for dinner, and added a request that "Bobo will enjoy his video game time" and when the prayer was over, Bobo turned to him and said, "Nut Brown, I changed my mind. I want you to play with me!" I said quietly, "A little kindness goes a long way." And Nut Brown said, with a satisfied smile, "It sure does." I'm so glad that my kids have a whole arsenal of ideas to use to get the things they want.
Tonight, I sat with Bobo at the table while he carefully wrote labels for all the parts of his Ninjago coloring page. I spelled 'katana' and 'gold' and 'rope' and 'grass' and 'arm' and everything else he could think of. Then Nut Brown invited him to a joint bath and that's what all the squealing and splashing from the bathroom is.