Wednesday, December 30, 2020

30 December 2020


 December and Christmas were stressful and wonderful at the same time.  Mr. Brown helped me timeline what needed to happen in December, so we started the month with both advent calendars in place and ready to go on December 1.  We guessed right on the gifts, and the children all felt very loved and were very sweet and kind to each other and to us all day.  Christmas was a really wonderful day.  Thank you to the grandparents and aunts and uncles who also sent gifts and made Christmas so great for our kids.

Pictured above is Christmas dinner.  Mr. Brown found Christmas poppers, and we ate ham and potatoes and pear custard pie, and it was also lovely.  Rose Pink took the picture on her new cell phone.

Sunday, December 20, 2020

20 December 2020

Bobo and Rosebud play together a lot.  They fight a lot but they are also primary playmates, and Rosebud misses him when he is at school or playing video games.  Tonight at dinner, Rose Pink asked them if they ever wished they were twins, and Bobo immediately said, "Yes."

Friday, December 18, 2020

18 December 2020


 Rose Pink and I went to get her learner's permit on Tuesday.  I managed to get all the paperwork right, and we had an appointment that we made in July (long wait time) and all of that meant that we were only in the office for maybe twenty minutes.  So excited for her to learn how to drive!

Thursday, December 17, 2020

17 December 2020


 This morning Rosebud was sitting next to me working on her homework and when I looked over I discovered that she was drawing on her hand.  I didn't feel like I could reprimand her because her older sister draws on herself a lot with body art markers, and actually just recently gave me and Rosebud and Bobo drawings of peppermint candies on our arms for Christmas.  So I just admired the loops and squares and hearts that she was creating.

Tuesday, December 15, 2020

15 December 2020

 A few catchup bits.

-Bobo has started using words that he's never heard said but that he's read in books.  Last week he told us that Santa was a 'hoe-axe'.  Love to watch his vocabulary growing.

-Thanksgiving was a quiet holiday, with just us.  Mr. Brown decided to make a pie every day instead of all the pies at once, and we turned it into a Festival of Gratitude for the whole week.  It was a lovely sunny week, with good food and lots of pie.

-Last week the littles and I went stargazing during church youth night.  We spread out a blanket in the church parking lot in a dark corner and grappled with the constellations in a book from the library versus the actual stars in the sky.  I don't know how successful we were but it was fun to lay on the blanket together and speculate on the stars.  So glad to be living somewhere that I can stargaze in December while wearing sandals.

Monday, December 14, 2020

14 December 2020

 Bobo came downstairs this morning with his blanket, and instead of sitting up to the table for scriptures, rolled himself up in cocoon on the floor.  After scriptures, the older kids took off for other things, and Bobo sat himself up without unrolling, and then lay down and inched his way around the floor like an inchworm.  Eventually he conducted a brief grapple with himself, at the end of which he exploded out of the blanket and got eaten by a bird.  Since he was now dead, he spread the blanket out to its full size and told me that he couldn't leave the 'ghost zone'.  So I made him a fried peanut butter sandwich and glass of milk for breakfast, which he ate in the ghost zone.  And then went up to start school.  Not a bad start to the week.

Friday, November 6, 2020

6 November 2020

A few notes. Rose Pink is finishing up rehearsals and performances for the high school theatre group. She is running the lights, and she is really enjoying the opportunity to work with a group of other teens on a big project. The play is being filmed and broadcast rather than being shown to a live audience.  She was allowed to invite one person to the performance last night and invited Nut Brown, who has been really interested in the play because it has strong D&D themes.  That was really nice of her, and he enjoyed it. It is also cool that we get to watch it later because we can watch it with her and get the whole backstory from her as we watch it!

While they were at the theater last night, we went for a walk with the other kids. Bobo grilled Mr. Brown for the answer to why the earth is round, and then moved on to what is the Big Bang and why do stars form in nebulas. It was fun to hear his curiosity and his focus on the information that Mr. Brown was giving him.  Rosebud was anxious about being out in the dark and held her parents' hands tightly for the whole walk.

About eleven pm, Rosebud woke up with nightmares and I put her to bed on the floor of our room. As I was getting ready for bed, she came into the bathroom and said, "Mama, I feel like I need something to cuddle. Luke maybe a pillow or something." I said, "We can walk down to your room and find Sunny Bear or Pink Llama or your kitty pillow...does that sound good?" She shook her head and I squatted down next to her and asked, "What would you like to cuddle?" She said, "Um, maybe one of my parents?" and I scooped her up for a good long hug and cuddle. She ended up going to sleep in bed with us that night.

Tuesday, October 27, 2020

27 October 2020

Catching up on some artwork that's been produced lately.

(artist: Rosebud)  This is a picture of Mom - see the long hair.


(artist: Bobo) this is a castle


(artist: Rosebud) it's a snail - I took the picture upside down.



(artis: Nut Brown) the days of creation


(artist: Nut Brown) a love note on a day that I really needed one


(artist: Bobo) a note from Bobo explaining to Papa that he and I and Rosebud (who is often called Miss B) have gone for a walk


(artist: Nut Brown) He made a game, with images on the front and stats on the back.



 (artist: Rosebud) she wrote this, and then she came over and sounded out 'c-a-t' and said, 'CAT'.

Friday, October 23, 2020

23 October 2020


 Bobo's teacher does a thing called 'Fri-yay' which we thought was kind of silly but really, by the time we get to Friday we are so relieved to be at the end of the week that we always feel like celebrating, so we plan special desserts.  Here we are having ice cream sundaes with homemade ice cream.  Bobo lately does not like being photographed AT ALL.

Tuesday, October 20, 2020

20 October 2020

Rosebud practicing her writing.  She hung this up on the fridge because she was so proud of it.
 

Monday, October 19, 2020

19 October 2020

 Bobo said to me tonight as he was going to bed:

"Mom, guess what.  Here's what I want to happen to my body when I die." (what's that?) "I want to be burned up, and then I want my ashes to be made into a tiny body, and then you can keep it in a little coffin forever."  (wow, Bobo, that's pretty cool!) "Yeah.  I should tell my future self!" (you should! then they'll know what to do!) "Okay.  Let's pretend I have a superpower time travel." He shook his bed blanket, and then looked at me.  "Mom, you can go now. I'm going to use my superpower."

I left the room so I don't know what happened next.

Sunday, October 18, 2020

18 October 2020

Sunday long walk - we went easy today and just did about five miles.  Stopped at a playground (bathroom stop)







This evening it was frozen pudding pops for dessert and the kids decided to go sit out on the driveway to eat them.  


Then they came inside and wrestled around on the floor together in a heavenly way.  We tried the head to tummy game all together and laughed at that as well.


 

Friday, October 2, 2020

2 October 2020

 I forgot to write up our visiting with BJ & Heather over the last six weeks.  We went up to see them in August, right after school started (did school from their house on Monday before driving back) and they came down to see us over Labor Day.  They stayed in the hotel near us (the only hotel in Leander) and had Rose Pink sleep over with them.  The next day we went to McKinney Falls and went swimming.  The water was cold but the day was hot and we had a good time.  Sunday, they went downtown and we went to church, and they came over in the evening for dinner and chat.  Monday we went out to Longhorn Caverns which was amazing just like last time.  Super fun to share it with them.  Mr. Brown really enjoyed the cave as well. He loves being underground.  It was nice to see them again.  They are our oldest friends.

Thursday, October 1, 2020

1 October 2020

 September: here are a few things that happened.

1. Kids learned how to do virtual public school very successfully.  Nut Brown in particular has surprised Mr. Brown and I with how he dominates discussions in his classes.  He assumes that he should be in charge when there's group work, and has even made a friend to play D&D with.  Rose Pink is doing well in her classes as well.  She's excited to go back to in-person for her theatre tech class every other day at some point in the next couple of weeks.  

Bobo is also doing really well.  Funny story about him: he just had to switch teachers because of the in-person kids starting back at school.  The new teacher told the class that she expected them to read five books per week.  Bobo and I were pondering this, and I was trying to figure out how on earth she could possibly think this was realistic.  Bobo currently reads chapter books that are 150-200 pages long, and he finishes one every few days.  (Keeping him in books is a challenge.)  But five of those per week seems an extraordinary requirement.  Eventually I said to Bobo, "I think she's expecting you to read picture books." He turned to me with a look of incredulity and said, "But that would be stupid!"  He was completely floored by the idea of picture books as a reading expectation.

Bobo is also way ahead of the class in math.  He is comfortable with two-digit multiplication and his class is doing pre-multiplication theory.  I guess we will have to figure out if there are gifted classes or something along those lines that might hold his interest.

The first few weeks of school were pretty exhausting for all of us, so we borrowed an idea from Bobo's teacher and instituted "Fri-yay" celebrations.  We don't have dessert the rest of the week and then have something fabulous on Friday or Saturday evening - ice cream sundaes, pound cake, lots and lots of chocolate chip cookies... something fun and sweet to celebrate finishing the week.  Mr. Brown and I expected this to be exhausting for the kids but we did not expect how tiring it has turned out to be for us as well.

2. Dyed hair.  I was waiting to post pictures for this but it's apparently never going to happen so I'm just going to go ahead and share.  A few weeks ago, we had a 'dye Saturday' and four of us dyed our hair.  Rose Pink dyed her hair dark purple.  It was very beautiful.  When it started washing out it faded in a very nice way too and gave her some nice two-tone looks for awhile as well.  She had fun messing with makeup to go with it as well.  A friend gave me some colored conditioner - bright pink - that was okay to use for Rosebud, so she got her heart's desire and had pink hair for a few weeks.  Since it's just highly colored conditioner, I was comfortable putting it in her hair, letting it sit and then rinsing it out in the shower with her eyes squeezed tight shut.  It worked beautifully and she was so happy to have pink hair!  Mr. Brown decided to dye his hair auburn.  He looks much younger and very handsome!  I dyed my hair pink again but this time it didn't show nearly as well.  The boys opted for haircuts only, no dye.

3. Rose Pink has some body art markers and she has been having a lot of fun drawing on herself in different colors.  She draws mysterious symbols, and lately lots of flowers.  Wish I had photos of these as well to share.

4. Bobo had to give a 'book talk' in school - it was called a book report when I was a kid.  I helped him write it and practice it, and then, since I'm working from home, I got to listen to him give it from the other room when it was his turn.  He did a great job!  I was so proud of him! He came bouncing in afterwards, super happy and excited at how well he did.  Being a bookworm, he also wrote down the titles of some of the other books that kids read, and asked me to look them up.

5. Nut Brown is taking debate as an eighth grader and was invited to attend the high school debate team practices on Thursday mornings.  I think debate suits him, and he is doing well with it.  He is also really liking his art class.

6. Rosebud worked all summer with Rose Pink to learn her letters and the sounds they make because she really wants to learn to read.  She's still struggling with putting the sounds together to make the letters into a word.  But the other day she brought me a piece of paper that she had written 'cat' on and then she read it to me - told me that she had written down 'cat'.  I love watching her grow.

7. The heat finally broke and we have had nice weather (high eighties) for the last week or so.  I planted my fall garden (peas, cabbage, cold weather crops) which is a first for me.  I'm still picking peppers, and I actually have four cantaloupes ripening on the vine at the moment.  Gardening is always full of surprises.  I also planted garlic for the first time.  We'll see what happens!

8. We have a new Sunday morning activity - long walks.  We get up early and go to a nearby trail and walk several miles before lunch.  Mr. Brown packs snacks to keep people happy and we just keep moving and looking and enjoying the outing.  It's so nice to be outdoors in the sunshine and walking.  Rosebud rides her balance bike and we all get along very well.  This was Mr. Brown's idea.  He has always been a good walker and I am glad that he is getting us all out of the house and moving.

Thursday, August 27, 2020

27 August 2020

We have a picture of Rose Pink helping her papa fix the bathroom sink by holding wrenches when she was a little girl (maybe three?).  Here Rosebud is also helping her papa stain the bench by pointing out all the spots he missed. Their physical positioning reminded me of when Rose Pink helped him out at a similar age.

 We have a picture of Rose Pink riding on the Hitchhiker when she was five or so.  Rosebud rides it now (but not TOO fast, Papa!) and Mr. Brown talked Rose Pink into climbing back on to it for a quick ride.  She was a good sport about it.  I remember how pleased she was when she rode it for the first time as a little girl.  Rosebud is almost ready to learn how to ride a bike independently and then we won't need the Hitchhiker any more.

Monday, August 24, 2020

24 August 2020


Sometimes cuteness just happens.  It happens a lot with Rosebud in the house.


 

The other night Mr. Brown called me Sweetie Pie as I was going to put Rosebud in bed.  She asked me, "Why did Papa call you Sweetie Pie?" and I said, "Because he loves me."  She replied, "Oh, so this is a sex thing?"  The things she picks up!

Wednesday, August 19, 2020

19 August 2020

fun activity during quarantine, especially for Nut Brown - building with Structure blocks
 

Tuesday, August 18, 2020

18 August 2020



I forgot to mark our family birthday.  I recently hung up a family history chronology next to the fireplace (above photo).

We celebrated with a meal that had dishes that remembered all the places we've lived: sweet corn for Iowa, shawarma from Michigan, taiyaki from Florida and homemade ice cream from Texas.  It also marked something that Mr. Brown and I love to do, which is try new dishes.  The shawarma and the taiyaki were both experimental.  The shawarma didn't turn out very well, but the taiyaki was a big hit (see below photos).

 

Also, the photos in our kitchen, which we love so much.  It continues to bring us so much joy!

Saturday, August 15, 2020

15 August 2020

Nut Brown celebrated his birthday on the first day of school. (Happy birthday, you get to go to school)

For his birthday this year, he wanted to eat a lot of meat, and he wanted to eat as much birthday cake as he wanted without me telling him he had to stop.  So we made brisket and Mr. Brown made him a cheesecake, and I didn't say anything about how much of it he ate.  

He did share some with the rest of us but enjoyed most of it himself.  This was all the weekend before his birthday.


On his actual birthday, we had homemade pizza and a chocolate raspberry poke cake.  We are going out of town this weekend, so after Nut Brown blew out the candles, Mr. Brown handed us all forks and said, "Eat as much as you want because we are not keeping this over the weekend."  (which is in keeping with Nut Brown's birthday theme of eating without restraint)  Nut Brown said he's always wanted to have his face pushed into a cake, and he kept bending over as if to lick the whipped topping over the cake. I said, "Do that again and I might just push your face into it!" and he did it again, so I did.
 He was very pleased with the experience.

Friday, August 14, 2020

14 August 2020

 We started public school yesterday and this is what it looks like. Except Bobo isn't wearing his headphones.  It looks like two boys at desks with laptops and headphones on.  How is this different from homeschooling? Here is an illustrative story: yesterday we heard Nut Brown say, "How do I put my hand down after you've called on me?" (this is a feature in Zoom).  Mr. Brown got up right away to go help him figure it out, but then realized that Nut Brown was asking the teacher, and she was helping him.  SOMEONE ELSE IS HELPING OUR KIDS FIGURE THINGS OUT.  This has never happened to us before.  This is going to be good for our family.

Bobo really enjoyed his time with his class online yesterday.  Nut Brown is more anxious, but he's also got more to figure out than Bobo does.  We are all helping him get started.  He's already good at this, so we just have to help him make up some of the skills he didn't learn as a homeschooler (how to make powerpoint charts).  I'm so glad that he gets to start virtually so he can learn how to be a student first, and then when we go back to school in person, he can learn social skills, instead of trying to do both at once.

Wednesday, August 12, 2020

12 August 2020

School starts tomorrow.  We spent a good chunk of today making sure everything is in order for tomorrow - desks set up, computers logged on to wifi, kids connected with their online classes, notebooks and pencils available, and so on and so on.  Bobo is excited.  Nut Brown is really anxious.  Rose Pink is excited. Mr. Brown is really nervous.  I'm ready for the anticipation to be over and to get the actual change from homeschooling to public school underway, so we can get through that as well and adapt to the new way of life we've chosen.

Mr. Brown has reframed our choice from "restrictive" to "a framework that we can grow against" which I think will help us adjust.

Tonight everyone went to bed at 9 pm (after our last family movie night - sad! We watched Abominable).  I was totally wound up, really really anxious.  I told Mr. Brown that this was way worse than Christmas Eve.  He was helping me calm down as we were laying in bed in the dark, and then the phone rang (at about 9:20 pm).  The school district is cancelling the first two days of high school due to technical difficulties.  We are off to a great start!

Tuesday, August 11, 2020

11 August 2020


 Some fabulous art from Rosebud.  She's really into coloring at the moment.

Monday, August 10, 2020

10 August 2020

 I set Rosebud up at the kitchen table with paints this morning while I was teleworking in the kitchen (love telework! and slow work days!) and when I took a picture, she said, "Send it to Papa please! He's upstairs!"

Sunday, August 9, 2020

9 August 2020

 The other day I was riding in the backseat of the minivan with Bobo, and he started telling me all about the fabulous hotel that he was going to build (this is an ongoing story that has origins in the apartment buildings behind our house) and how it was going to have the perfect spaces in it for each member of the family.  He likes stories like this and we always enjoy discussing what sorts of things each person would like to have.  He always discusses my space first and he always includes lots of plants, which I think he has figured out is a surefire way to get my attention - start talking about plants.  Anyway, he had moved on from my space and was talking about how the lobby would have an endless slush machine that could give you every flavor, and an endless potato chip machine, but NOT an endless candy machine.  "No?" I said.  "Why not?" and he looked at me and said in all seriousness, "Because I don't want to lose all my teeth."

Friday, August 7, 2020

7 August 2020

 Today I got off work and went downstairs and discovered a plan to make kolaches for dinner.  The girls and I went to HEB, where Rosebud got to push her own tiny shopping cart around the store.  Then Rose Pink insisted that she was going to make the kolaches by herself (which she did) and we watched Kung Fu Panda together as a family (Rosebud's choice for the week) and then we ate mango pops for dessert on the trampoline.  The kids did dinner chores while Rosebud and I watered various growing things and picked tomatoes.  I helped Nut Brown finish the dishes and then we went for a walk in the dark as a family all together and the whole evening was very lovely.  My family is pretty dang awesome.

Rosebud is really growing up this summer.  Her body's changed from being a large toddler to being a kid.  She doesn't like for me to pick her up on my hip any more, and she doesn't like to sit on my lap or hold my hand quite as much as she used to.  I am proud of her growing up but I do miss her little-ness dreadfully. 

Wednesday, August 5, 2020

5 August 2020

Tonight putting Rosebud in bed, she says: "Mom, how old are you?" (41) "Wow, that's old.  That's like a grandma.  But not quite.  But you have two kids that are almost married, so soon you'll be a grandma.  And then you'll be dead." (pause) "I'm going to miss you."

Tuesday, July 28, 2020

27 July 2020

Family movie night a couple weeks ago was The Three Musketeers (the Disney version from the 90s) and it was extremely popular. I got the book out of the library to read again and Bobo swiped it to read it himself.  He read the first 19 pages, and asked me about some words, and then said that the author used a lot of words but nothing had happened yet! So we agreed that I would get a simpler version of it from the library for him.

Friday, July 24, 2020

24 July 2020

Mr. Brown has a beloved doll from his childhood named Mandy that lives on a bookshelf in our room.  Rosebud has recently discovered her and adopted her.  Rose Pink helped her get cleaned up - she got her hair washed very gently.  Rosebud carries her around the house as they play together, and told Mr. Brown yesterday that Mandy calls her 'Mama'.

Sunday, July 19, 2020

19 July 2020



Bobo and Rosebud decided to draw with (wet) chalk on the trampoline.  They had a lot of fun with it!  Rosebud and I had a tea party out there later where I drew the teacups and the honey pot (we just watched the Winnie the Pooh movie - the old one- and she loved it).  This was back in June- it's too hot now to be outside during the day.

Thursday, June 25, 2020

25 June 2020

 Rose Pink has been playing around with her paints.


Thursday, June 18, 2020

18 June 2020

Guess who lost a tooth?


 Guess who got a haircut?